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How To Be More Attractive In 5 Minutes | 5 Hacks To Make Her Want You Fast

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5-hacks-to-be-more-attractive-in-5-minutes-tallYou’re at a party.

Glancing at your watch you realize…

5 minutes until SHE shows up!

You’ve been waiting to approach her.

But the nerves set in.

How do you make sure that you’re the most attractive version of you?

Your outfit looks great…

but so do most of the guys’ there.

So how do you stand out?

This article will discuss 5 quick ways that you can be more attractive in 5 minutes.

It’s a great list that you can use when dating, early on in a relationship, or to keep the fire going.

 

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1) Smile

Smiling disarms the people around you.

No one, and I mean no one wants to be around someone who is snarling. There is a perceived tension that others detect that may or may not be there. If you don’t smile, you’re looked at as unapproachable.

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Sometimes people scoff and don’t mean to. This is when a person looks like they’re frowning or upset when their expression is blank.

David B. Givens, director of the Center for Nonverbal Studies in Spokane, Washington, cites studies where subjects perceive a neutral and expressionless face as unfriendly. There is no scenario that I can imagine where being seen as unfriendly will attract a woman.

Some guys don’t like to smile because they are uncomfortable doing so. If this is the case, then you should practice your grin. The best smile is an authentic one. Mimic a laugh while in the mirror and your natural smile will come forth. Additionally, there are many benefits of smiling that go beyond attracting your dream girl.

  • Endorphins are released – these are neurotransmitters triggered by the movements of the muscles in your face. These chemicals are responsible for making us feel happy and help reduce stress levels. Smiling more signals the brain to release these hormones thus increasing these feelings.
  • Appear more approachable – Simply stated, you put off nice vibes and are perceived to be more friendly and open to conversations

 

supercharging-your-sales-with-body-language-e14551470789422) Uncross Your Arms

When your arms are crossed, they form a closed defensive shield that blocks out the outside world. Shields act in two ways:

  1. Block incoming threats
  2. Location to hide for safety or so they cannot be seen

Crossed arms also are an indication of hostility. Some folks say that they cross their arms because it’s comfortable. This may be so, but it makes the person(s) with whom you are interacting have to guess if you’re tense or not.

When arms are not crossed, they expose the torso and the person, making them more vulnerable. This signifies comfort that often indicates trust. It can also be power position that dares the other person to attack whilst knowing that the other person dare not. The point is to show that you are

  • Open – ready for interaction and connection
  • Harmless – not a jerk who’s going to embarrass or hurt the person you’re trying to impress
  • Interested – You want to get to know a person and what that person to get to know you
  • Approachable – a nice person who isn’t going to bite the head off of people that try to connect with them.

 

3) Surround Yourself With People and Talk To Them

This may seem counterintuitive. Why would a woman be attracted to a guy who’s always around women? Well, according to psychologist Dr. Sarah Hill of Texas Christian University, Fort Worth –  other women’s presence gives men a “halo effect”.

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This means that a person will think that you are attractive based on an otherwise unrelated circumstance. Her research also found the following:

  • Women use the presence of a man’s mate as a cue to his own quality.
  • Women tend to lower their defenses around men who have other women around them. Most
  • Women perceive men with attractive romantic partners to be more desirable than when depicted alone because women infer such men possess unobservable qualities that women desire in their mates

Simply put no woman wants a man who other women don’t want. If you are desirable enough to have a lot of female friends or can keep the company of women, then you obviously have some traits that women like and would find attractive. Such characteristics are:

  • Able to communicate – You show that you can handle multiple conversations and perspectives in the group
  • You have empathy and compassion – You are able to relate to the emotions and feelings of a woman in order to keep their attention
  • A commanding level of patience – You prove that you can handle the natural competition that exists within woman-to-woman relationship and are able to navigate those waters
  • You are comfortable with you – You don’t lose yourself identity by being around a lot of ladies. You’re not trying to be a ladies man
  • Open minded – the perspectives of men and women are, many times, different. Women can get excited about a guy who is able to respect and honor that difference without friction

There are many more characteristics that a guy who hangs with a group of women

 

wear red4) Throw Some Red Into Your Outfit

It seems weird, but red is an attractive color. I’m not saying that you should wear an all red suit with matching shoes. Let’s be clear…I’m not saying this! I am, however, stating that red gives signals of

  • Energy
  • Strength and influence
  • Determination
  • Passion
  • Desire
  • Love

Research is clear that color has a strong role in attraction. The University of Rochester published a multicultural study in the Journal of Experimental Psychology which found the red effect was limited to status and romance: red made the man seem more powerful, attractive, and sexually desirable.

Red is a commanding color that is synonymous with giving directions. Think about what you see red on. A red traffic signal or stop sign tells give you driving instructions. A red fire truck or fire extinguisher let’s know that there is a solution to a problem near. I red rose is the worldwide symbol of romance. What I’m attempting to communicate is that red draws on our emotions that may be strongly connected to attraction.

 

text-her-25) Text Her

In today’s fast-paced society, a text is a great way to communicate. It’s hard to remember the world when texting wasn’t available. As it relates to women, there are some guidelines that you should follow so that you’re increasing your attractiveness. Before we get into those rules, let’s discuss why women like texting.

Relationship coaching expert Corey Lane writes that texting helps facilitate and underscore the mystery of romance for women.

  • Women begin to wonder, “When will he text back?” or “I wonder what he’s thinking”. This kind of anticipation is what provides that thrill.
  • Texting gives women time to think and process before answering or asking questions. It allows them (and you) to you communicate effectively without distractions.
  • It’s like an ongoing conversation that. She might text you all throughout the day – take a break while driving and at the gym – then back to you 3 hours later. You’re able to pick up where you left off.

As I mentioned before, there are rules to texting as well. Follow these simple guidelines and you will have a great chance of increasing your attractiveness when getting to know a gal.

  • Keep them short – Long text messages can be overwhelming and things like tone is hard to determine
  • Think before you answer – texts are letters on a screen that can be misinterpreted so make sure you’re being clear
  • Time your responses perfectly – You don’t want to seem too anxious by answering at her beck and call. You also don’t want to look like a jerk and make her feel like she’s not a priority by taking too long
  • Keep it PG – progress photos of you after your epic chest day at the gym are not in order at this stage.
  • No drunk texting – You will look like a jackass so just don’t do it.
  • Spell correctly – shorthand such at gr8 and u2 can be perceived as juvenile. That’s not the impression you want to leave out the gate
  • Use emojis – these are fun ways to show your feelings. She will connect with the emotions and respond accordingly.

 

This article was sponsored by Zorrata. They are an affordable way to push your style to the edge. Often times men will say they aren’t jewelry guys. Well, you never know until you take a shot.

Their high-quality masculine jewelry has beautiful designs for those wanting to portray power & status. 

My personal favorite, and one of their most popular items? The Anchor bracelet. The diamond cut crystal stone in the middle makes it one of the most unique anchor bracelets of any brand. 

Use code RMRS20 for 20% OFF

Click HERE To Discover Zorrata


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